In the beginning was…

I am often amazed at how quickly persons will rise to defend race as if I have offended a family member, a childhood friend or perhaps even a spouse when I question the authenticity of the relationship or the intentions of race for their life.  They take a sense of ownership in race, which ultimately […]

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Double Consciousness as Double- Mindedness

“A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” ~ James 1.8, KJV “It is a peculiar sensation, this double-consciousness, this sense of always looking at one’s self through the eyes of others, of measuring one’s soul by the tape of a world that looks on in amused contempt and pity. One ever feels […]

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Speak Wisely

 “Speech is the mirror of the soul; as a man speaks, so he is. ~Publilius Syrus “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.” ~Jesus Christ Much of today was spent at the airport in Raleigh, North Carolina.  My flight, scheduled to depart at 2:40 p.m. was pushed back to 7:30 p.m.  I […]

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Just Won’t Let Me Be

If I sing, I am a minstrel Can’t dance, won’t smile because I’m “shuckin’ and jivin’” If I don’t, I am an “angry black woman”   Can’t cook without Aunt Jemima’s head scarf Can’t eat without watermelon and fried chicken   If I tell the truth, I am an Uncle Tom If I don’t, it […]

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We Could All Use “The Help”

Last weekend, I read Kathryn Stockett’s book The Help.  Intrigued by the title and wanting to hear their side of the story, my interest only increased when I turned to the back cover to discover that the author was a European American woman.  I thought, This is going to be good.  But, while reading her […]

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